The gardener who trades secateurs for stilettos to become his drag queen alter ego

The gardener who trades secateurs for stilettos to become his drag queen alter ego

Professional gardener Tom, aka the Drag Queen Gardener, cares for a private 90-acre estate in Warwickshire, but trades secateurs for stilettos to become his alter ego, Daisy Desire. Portrait: Andrew Montgomery

Published: January 21, 2025 at 10:02 am

Earliest gardening memory I was definitely a late bloomer. Gardening wasn’t part of my childhood at all. My first real memory is spotting a patch of allotments out of the train window on my daily commute to Birmingham. I was mesmerised by how, in the heart of a big grey city, people were cultivating these little Edens. It was like a secret garden rebellion, and I knew I wanted in.

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First plant love Inspired by those rebellious allotment gardeners, the first thing I grew was… a marrow. Was it a triumph? Let’s just say that marrow and I had a very short-lived relationship, and I’ve never grown one since. First loves can be complicated.

Remember to sit back and enjoy it. Find the best view of your garden, plop a comfy chair down, and take in all your hard work. You deserve it.

Who are your horticultural heroes? Beth Chatto, without question. She was pioneering sustainability before it was cool, and her passion for drought-tolerant plants is iconic. Then there’s Manoj Malde, who inspires me with his unapologetic use of bold, vibrant colour. He’s all about breaking the mould, and I adore that. Lastly, John from my first allotment. Without his guidance, I would have probably fled the plot. He was my Yoda, and every gardener needs one.

I love the idea of beauty in chaos, where flowers tumble over each other in joyful abundance. It feels natural, playful and oh-so-fabulous.

Favourite garden Birmingham Botanical Gardens is a place that marries beauty with education, and there’s something for everyone – from seasoned gardeners to kids just discovering the magic of plants. I always leave there feeling inspired. If I could bring a little of that spirit into every garden I create, I’d consider myself a success.

Most worthwhile tips Don’t overthink it – failure is part of the process. Even the experts mess up (trust me, I’ve been there). Don’t lose sight of why you garden – it’s supposed to bring you joy, not feel like another chore on your to-do list. Remember to sit back and enjoy it. Find the best view of your garden, plop a comfy chair down, and take in all your hard work. You deserve it.

Favourite planting style I’m all about the quintessential cottage garden. It’s wild, it’s a bit messy, but it’s bursting with life and colour – just like me! I love the idea of beauty within chaos, where flowers tumble over each other in joyful abundance. It feels natural, playful and oh-so-fabulous.

Favourite ‘weed’ you’re happy to have in your garden I have a soft spot for lesser celandine (Ficaria verna). I mean, who could hate a plant that carpets the forest floor in a shimmering golden blanket each spring?

Biggest challenge facing gardeners today Without a doubt, climate change. It’s rewriting the gardening rule book daily. What used to thrive one year might struggle the next, and weather patterns are all over the place. Gardeners today have to be nimble, adaptable and ready to face whatever Mother Nature throws at us.

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